4 reasons why you never orgasm during sex

Below are a few reasons why most ladies never orgasms during sex. They are also pointers on how one you can work on climaxing.

1. Lousy foreplay:

Are you tired of the same old “what’s my name…call me papi” type of foreplay? Well, this could be the reason why you rarely climax even when he pounds you like millet. The only way to change this is to explore new foreplay moves. After realizing what works for you then practice it more often and see ho

2. Changing the positions too often

It is tempting to show off your skills in bed. However, the acrobatic moves can be tiresome making it hard for a woman to climax. It is important to try a position/s i.e doggy, scissors, the amazon etc that will work for both parties. Focus on where you feel pleasure most and allow your body to go with the flow.

3. Communication

It is important to communicate while having sex. Direct your partner to understand where you feel pleasure the most i.e “yes right there…” “go deeper”. Don’t start conversations like “hujamaliza nimechoka..or Hauchoki?” (my apologies to all talkers).

4. Tuning out

Do you ever find yourself thinking of how you look while having sex? Sexy or fugly? Well don’t worry it happens to most people. However this is another reason why you find yourself not climaxing. The brain is an important organ of the body especially during sex. It registers everything you feel while in the act. Anyway, if you find yourself turning out it is advisable to try some foreplay, touch yourself or change positions then jump back in for an interesting experience.