5 simple ways to help you orgasm together with your partner

You know that magical connection during sex that leads to both of you orgasming together? It does not always happen but that’s not to say that it’s impossible.

In fact, it can happen more often if both of you are open to learning new bedroom antics. If you want to have that exclusive moment in the bedroom with your partner, try out these skills:

1. Don’t overthink about it

Everyone wants to close the finishing line. Even so, paying so much attention to the end goal may distract the whole process and prevent you from achieving it. Both of you should focus on having fun and wait for things to unfold naturally.

2. Spice it up

Be open to new ways and don’t be afraid to make use of toys. A cock ring for instance will delay the man’s orgasm and can help you orgasm at the same time. Also, the lady can use a sex toy on the clit to enhance stimulation.

3. Take it slow

If one of you always cums before the other, take things slow so that you have it at about the same time. And if you feel like you are going to orgasm faster than required, take a breather or change positions to delay it.

4. Be selfless

Take some time playing and arousing each other first before getting to the main thing. It really helps if you know what arouses your partner and they also know your erogenous zones. Give your partner the best and they should also do the same. That way, you will be at the same level in terms of arousal and can orgasm together with more ease.

5. Communication

Your partner won’t know how you are feeling unless you say it. Tell them what feels good, sensitive or hurts. They may be having a great time while you are hurting. Also, if you are close to getting an orgasm, you can tell your partner so that you can take things slower if your partner is far from it.